When you hear the needs and cries of others and want to help and teach others...be sure to LISTEN to them....REALLY LISTEN.
ASK THEM what they "need".
DON'T TELL THEM what they "need"
What they need most is to speak their true feelings without having to filter them through what they think "you" want to hear so they won't increase their grief.
There can be no repercussions of or opportunistic words from you to create "strings attached" to what they say. You are "not" to be "trusted" if that's in your heart. Your highest goal needs to be for them to feel free as a bird to be able to soar to their greatest heights.
They need "unconditional love" and no limit on time.
IF YOU ARE NOT ABLE TO GIVE "ALL" THOSE THINGS....YOU MAY ONLY HURT THEM MORE.